Star DJ turned porn star Diego Alvarez was famous for his pierced perineum and his enthusiastic onscreen versatility, but in his personal life was a committed bottom. He was a member of the NYC porn circle and often appeared in videos packed with the hottest Latin porn studs in the business.

Essentially, I had lusted after Diego Alvarez a few years before I met him. He was a DJ and part of what passed in the NYC nightlife world as a celebrity couple, and the other half of that couple had been a friend of mine. So they would be photographed for the local giveaway nightlife mags, and I thought he was a dreamboat.

That career seemed to go away, and the next pics I saw of him were in porno mags, scenes from videos featuring a guy with the same face, a new name and a notable piercing, a hoop through his perineum, which seemed really hot, and in invitation to explore that hole. Which a number of guys did in movies, most notably when he was on a big turntable getting gangbanged.

I would eventually learn that he enjoyed that scene, since he was the center of attention and, it turns out, a true attention whore. Which was actually a description he gave himself.

I met him online, when he sent me pics of himself through a sex chatroom, under his real name, which I knew. I thought, can this really be that hot dreamboat? When I saw the piercing in one of his pics I knew it was, and invited him over.

Okay, he was a great fuck, a good cocksucker, and not much of a kisser. I mean, when he did it, it was very nice, but infrequent. I can state this because I had an ongoing series of encounters with him, although he was cheating on a soon-to-be-ex boyfriend.

So here’s where the story will become a bit sparse, because I ended up having some kind of undefined relationship with him over a period of 18 months or two years, during which I learned “Diego” was the name he gave to his dark side. Which could be pretty dark.

Although he could be a wonderful, sweet, funny person, he was also a psychic trainwreck, damaged by his past. And actively sabotaged any relationship that progressed beyond sex. Enough said.

I have heard from him on occasion and know the basics of his life since then, which will remain undisclosed other than to say he seems to have conquered some of his demons.